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Ahhhhhh. I am trying to be okay in this Chili’s but I am NOT okay in this Chili’s.

becausedragonage:

sapphichollstein:

iamryanhenly:

Parents should not be reading your journals

Parents should not be searching through your trash 

Parents should not be snooping on your private social media messages 

Parents should not be taking your bedroom door off 

Parents should not be invading your privacy 

reblogging this because when they go through my phone and find my tumblr they’ll see this

As an actual mom, I approve this message. If your parents say it’s a normal part of parenting, no. No it’s not. They are wrong.

bimbodemon-deactivated20210909:

So, recap on SISEA:

• Would require sex workers to practically dox themselves in order to upload to sites like onlyfans
• There’s no recourse for sex workers to report their stolen/nonconsensual content, as you either consented to every piece of content featuring you, or you’re a victim, meaning that a sex worker reporting say revenge porn of themselves would get ALL of their work pulled.
• The ID requirements also apply to art, meaning old art depicting nudity or that is otherwise deemed as pornographic (which would disproportionately target queer art) would be wiped off the net unless you can provide the models ID, even if said piece was created decades ago and the model is long dead (which again, would disproportionately old queer media)
• Would in general get rid of all user-generated adult content, giving more power to big porn sites and putting sex workers in an even more vulnerable position
• Would be based on the states’ age of consent laws, meaning said porn sites could hire 16 year old performers in most states (yikes) and lawyers that went through the bill agreed that in some cases it could be superseded by underage marriage laws, as in, a married minor (because those laws still exist in some states) could “”“consent”“” to appear in adult content if this bill, that claims to protect minors and victims of sex trafficking, passes.

I don’t give a shit if you think people with an OnlyFans should be hanged, this shit WILL harm adult consensual sex workers while in some cases enabling actual abusers and pedos

Please contact your senator to oppose SISEA if you’re in the US

myowngloriousmess:

Non-cutesy self-care tips

• Have you been eating well? If not, eat a piece of fruit or a handful of nuts. You need vitamins and protein.
• You’re probably not drinking enough water.
• When is the last time you showered? Take a cold shower to wake you up or a hot shower if you need to relax.
• Do the laundry that’s been piling up. You’ve been wearing that sweatshirt for too long.
• Take care of the dishes in the sink that have been there for three days and have started to stress you out.
• Did you brush your teeth this morning? How about your hair?
• Listen to the messages on your phone that have been there for days.
• Go outside for at least a couple of minutes. You don’t even have to do anything; just sit down. Breathe in the fresh air and get some vitamin D.
• Open your blinds. Your room is too dark and it’s probably making you tired.
• Spend some time with your pet. Pet them, feed them, take them for a walk or clean out their litter box. Caring for them will make you feel useful and responsible and give you something to do.

The self-care posts that tell you to take a bath and eat chocolate and read a book are good but do what needs to be done first. Eating chocolate when you haven’t showered in four days and you can’t remember when the last time you changed your underwear was won’t make you feel better. It will probably make you feel worse. Clean yourself up; clean your surroundings up. Then take care of the little things. Tackle life one thing at a time.

I just….mmmmmmmmmmmmmMMMMMMMMMMMMM

Originally posted by worldoro

What do you do when your brain doesnt want to work and you kinda do just wanna walk outside and workout a little and play video games??? I wish we could hang out easier in public without worrying about a fucking pandemic. Why is the South like this.

Gotta go back to work in over 24 hrs and I am Big Sad Hrs right now. I dont know what to do to make things better. I’m just sad. Why cant I be more accountable? I want to get better. Why does my brain feel like its on over drive when I fucking cant think of anything to talk about? Why do I feel like I wasted someone’s entire day bc I had no idea of what I wanted to do and this is like our first solid day off together. Maybe I was just happy to be with him?? Idk. I feel so bad and sad but it’s nothing in comparison to how he is feeling like how…how do I help. What can I do. Why am I so fucking clueless all the fucking time. Fuck.

It’s my bday and I just kinda wanna cry a little and go back to sleep

//everything Hurts and I’m Sad…..not feeling like myself….